The list keeps your standards in check and can help you quickly discern whether or not that guy gets a second date.
It protects your heart against unnecessary wear and tear.
The following are some guidelines based on those verses.
A Christian boyfriend should be Humble and teachable: The Bible tells us that a righteous man, or a wise man, will take instruction gladly, even when it hurts him (Psalm 141:5; Proverbs 9:9, ).
” Therefore, even if you have a vision or idea of what your future husband will be like, it is important that you define the specific traits in your life partner. An example would be, “A man who has a calm temperament and handles stress well.” This may sound silly, but the reason it is important to put the important qualities you desire into writing is to hold you accountable.
I was in a bible study where we were required to make a “husband list” for homework. It also gives you heightened discernment in dating situations.
But before anyone can get married they have to go through the process of getting to know a person and pursuing love for them (at least if you practice the Western tradition of pursuing marriage).
It’s also hard, excruciating, joyful, hurtful, and incredibly fulfilling — at least this is what married people tell me, and from watching them, I believe it.Let’s be honest ladies, it can be easy to let something slide or dismiss a red flag when a cute guy tells us yummy, fluttery words we want to hear.But is it an ugly situation when we let our hearts get too wrapped up into someone who ultimately doesn’t take care of it.Question: "What should I look for in a Christian boyfriend?" Answer: Anybody can say they love Jesus or that they’re a Christian.We are all fallen human beings, bent on foolishness and selfishness.