I’d honestly have to decide based on the woman involved.
Source: Shutterstock I am not an expert on the topic of dating bisexual women, but I have dated at least two bisexual woman before so that experience makes me about 200% more qualified to speak on this subject than some of you.
Of the two, the woman I dated for the longest period (two years) had dated several women before me, and she probably dated a few women after me.
“But in my personal life, in my sex life, in who I choose to love, I just think that I would think about it too much. I wouldn’t be comfortable with it and I don’t know why.” Amber made sure to clarify that she was not judging anyone who is bisexual and that she is bisexual herself – she’s not not personally comfortable with dating bisexual men.
“Maybe I’m not secure enough to be with a man that likes other men because I would feel like when he’s out with his boys, it’s just more of a moment, I don’t know,” she went on.
Since I was attracted to boys, I just assumed I was straight and ignored the attraction I felt for girls.
I never gave myself the chance to think about it because I was safe where I was.There’s no doubt about it – bisexuals can get some pretty bad press from certain sectors of the lesbian community.Untrustworthy, greedy, “tourists”, guilty of “straight privilege”, even secretly straight… Let’s face it, we bis aren’t top of everyone’s dating list.After a recent episode of Amber‘s podcast, we think it’s probably safe to assume Val is heterosexual, as Amber revealed she “wouldn’t be comfortable” dating a bisexual man.“I think it’s amazing when a guy is bisexual and he’s comfortable with it,” Amber said.(At least for me; it was the first time I had identified myself in that way.) A year or so later, when I got pregnant, we went back in to the doctor to confirm and after we had heard our baby's heartbeat for the first time, seen that it was a real being, that our lives were about to change, the nurse comes in to do my examination (my boyfriend had left at this point) and tells me in a sly voice, ' I guess we can cross the bisexual off your chart, can't we?