But, every so often, you will see a glimpse of the scars she isn’t showing. Hold her hand in the silences and let her feel that you won’t let go when it’s dark and she can’t see. She just wants to see if you’re willing to scratch through the surface. You need to constantly show her that all is not lost and what’s left is up to her to find.
She will do the best job at covering up any signs of her scars and try as hard as you may, getting under her skin, getting to know what’s inside the scars, could take a lifetime, if not more. She just wants to know that you aren’t just another hoax. You need to be the reason why she wants to hope again.
In time, that memory or reminder will cease to affect them as much as it may now. If you stick with us, we will make it worth your time.
We've had our hearts broken and our emotions toyed with. There may be times when you'll feel like you are doing all the talking in the relationship, but it's simply because we would rather the focus on you than us. At the same time, we know the risks and vulnerability that comes with sharing personal and private aspects of our lives.
It's almost like a bad cold: You're still capable of doing things, but chances are you aren't out meeting hot singles in your area on a Friday night. You have to ~earn~ her trust; you can't expect for her to automatically grant it to you.
You might get over it when you meet someone new you're excited about, it might just disappear one day, and you won't even notice it's gone because you finally feel normal again. Because that's what she did with the last guy she was with and look how 4. If you're looking for something casual, she could be down, but don't insinuate you want a wifey when you're just looking for a fling. The thing about heartbreak is that it easily escalates from "my breakup was bad" to "my ex is bad" to "men are bad" so bear with her misandrist jokes.
In one case, I double-dated with a friend and his partner, who had fixed me up with an attractive woman who had clearly spent time on her outfit, hair and makeup.
I didn't even see that she was a knockout because I was blind to everything except my own pain.
It's only natural that we now keep them guarded and protected, but that isn't to say they'll stay hidden forever. Just like with our emotions, over time, we will start to share pieces of ourselves.
Sooner or later, you will start to see the puzzle we are made of.
Then, to love a woman with a broken heart, a broken soul, or a broken smile is an art and a beauty of its own. To love a woman who is broken is to walk on broken glass pieces all the time.
It’s in the way that she loves you back, needs you and the way she tells you, or doesn’t, that is so intriguing. It could hurt you more; but you have to understand that it is hurting her, too. When the words are all used and the silences take over between you and her, let the silence linger.
For anyone who chooses to love a broken man or woman, here are seven things you should keep in mind: There will be moments in the relationship where they'll be reminded of something their exes did, or maybe you'll do something that'll remind them of someone from the past.