Dating isn’t just a way to meet your match; it’s an opportunity to heal and grow.
Once you recognize your fears related to dating and relationship, you should not hold onto them.
I’ve talked about how to get over approach anxiety in a step-by-step process before. Some guys think the first touch has to be grabbing the girl and bending her over across your arm, salsa style, and laying a kiss on her.
Unless they’re 100% assured of success – or at least, a lack of failure – they don’t want to take a chance.
After all: if you don’t failure that they ultimately cause themselves to stagnate.
We all have fears built up from our pasts but we need to break through them to be successful and to enjoy our partners.
These are the 5 major barriers and fears men must break through to become successful at dating: “If you are going up to girls, you are better than 90% of the guys out there” is the oft-quoted statistic. Most guys actually don’t meet girls anywhere other than through friends, or maybe through online dating here and there.
It doesn’t matter whether it’s a warm approach or cold approach situation.
It doesn’t matter if it’s at a party or a coffee shop.
When you want to improve your dating life, you have to start working from the inside out. No matter how much work you put into your wardrobe or your banter, not facing down your dating fears will sabotage your progress.
The problem is that for many guys, those fears become the reason why they don’t progress.
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